If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Cape Cod with a dating guide then you are in luck. Well maybe not luck you probably just know how to use Google but either way we will be telling you all about where to pick up single women and the best spots for a date night all around the area.
We always like to begin with the nightlife and hooking up, next we will dive into meeting single Cape Cod girls during the day or how you can use online dating sites to make things happen a little quicker. Date night ideas and all types of stuff to do at any time day or night will also be discussed.
You can look through more of our posts for cities around the Northeast if you want to find some new cool cities to visit in the future.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
These days a lot of guys will only care about a list of singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Cape Cod girls so here it is:
- Torino at 415 Main St, Hyannis
- Embargo at 453 Main St, Hyannis
- Cleat & Anchor at 243 Lower County Rd, Dennis Port
- Sundancers at 116 Main St, West Dennis
- Lost Dog Pub at 1374 MA-134, South Dennis
- Sand Dollar Bar & Grill at 50 East-West Dennis Rd
- O’Shea’s Olde Inn at 348 Main St, West Dennis
- Grumpy’s Pub at 29 Locust St, Falmouth
- Quahog Republic at 97 Spring Bars Rd, Falmouth
- The Underground Bar at 293 Commercial St, Provincetown
- Nor’East Beer Garden at 206 Commercial St, Provincetown
- Harbor Lounge at 359 Commercial St, Provincetown
- Beachcomber at 1120 Cahoon Hollow Rd, Wellfleet
- Longfellow’s Pub at 182 Old Town House Rd, South Yarmouth
We want to point out that this is definitely not a big time party destination so if you are planning a trip in hopes of hooking up with Cape Cod girls you may want to choose another destination. We aren’t saying you can’t get laid here, but you have lots of things working against you.
First off, this is more of a family friendly vacation destination than a raucous spring break type spot. Secondly, the island is really spread out so there might be a good party going down somewhere but if you are in the wrong town you probably won’t find out about it.
Main Street in Hyannis and Commercial Street in Provincetown are probably the two best areas for singles nightlife. You can find more going on in Falmouth at the Southern tip as well.
Those links will lead you to hotels in each area, and if your goal is to hook up you probably will want to stay in one of those towns. Of course there will be a lot more going on during peak tourist season, and if you happen to be here outside of that you will probably have more fun trying to pick up girls at bars in Boston which isn’t too far away.
Meet Cape Cod Girls During The Day
Our best advice would be to go out to the main street of whatever town you are in and look for single Cape Cod women at shops, cafes, or restaurants and go introduce yourself. Being that things are so spread out you just really never know where the right place will be.
There are some beaches around but they aren’t really party or pick up spots. There is always the old reliable of trying to meet girls at malls and shopping districts like:
- The Cape Cod Mall
- Capetown Plaza
- Yarmouth Shopping Plaza
- Lemon Tree Village
Chat With Girls Online
Alright guys, we aren’t going to claim that there are any great online dating options here, meeting Cape Cod girls online will be a lot easier during peak season but you can’t be sure how long they will be sticking around. For that reason the dating site we are going to discuss is more of a hook up site.
We also think you may want to look into using it in your hometown before or after your trip. Adult Friend Finder is the biggest hook up site in the world and it might be able to help you get laid here, and we are sure it will be able to help you get laid in many of the biggest cities around America.
When a girl near you signs up you can rest assured she is ready to hook up as soon as she can. You can go ahead and try using it here, but you will also be shocked at how many girls in American and European cities use this site when they want to get laid soon.
So while you can try to use Adult Friend Finder to hook up with Cape Cod girls, also consider it while you are sitting in your home town not knowing where to go to have some fun. As mentioned, you probably are going to be surprised at the options you will find.
Cape Cod Dating Guide
We just fully covered the best ways for you to meet single girls so it is time to pivot to our Cape Cod dating guide. We all know hooking up will only be possible if you are able to show her a good time on your date night.
Any of these romantic restaurants and cocktail bars could do the trick:
- Yarmouth House at 335 MA-28, West Yarmouth
- Chillingsworth at 2449 Main St, Brewster
- Ceraldi at 15 Kendrick Ave Next to the Pier, Wellfleet
- The Mews at 429 Commercial St, Provincetown
- Buca’s Tuscan Roadhouse at 4 Depot Rd, Harwich
- Candleberry Inn at 1882 Main St, Brewster
- Old Yarmouth Inn at 223 MA-6A, Yarmouth Port
- Scargo Cafe at 799 Main St, Dennis
- The Ocean House at 425 Old Wharf Rd, Dennis Port
- Cuvee at Chatham Inn, 359 Main St Suite 2
- Captain Linnell House at 137 Skaket Beach Rd
- Woodshed at 1993 Main St, Brewster
Try and find a bar with live music for drinks and dancing if possible. The Wellfleet Drive-In can make for a unique date night and they have miniature golf right nearby.
For something a bit more grown up you could see a live show at The Cape Playhouse in Dennis.
Day Date Ideas
Some of our favorite places around the area to take advantage of nice weather outdoors together are:
- Monomoy National Wildlife Refuge
- Rail Trail
- National Seashore
- Nickerson State Park
- White Cedar Swamp Trail
Of course many girls would love to lay out on the beach on a date during the day:
- Mayflower Beach
- Nauset Beach
- Race Point Beach
- Marconi Beach
- Coast Guard Beach
- Old Silver Beach
- Chatham Lighthouse Beach
You could sign up for some dune tours, or for some places that are a little more sophisticated try:
- Heritage Museums & Gardens
- Sandwich Glass Museum
- Museum of Natural History
- John F Kennedy Hyannis Museum
Somewhere like Martha’s Vineyard could make a great spot for your next romantic vacation.
Enjoy Dating Cape Cod Girls
We feel like we have covered this town as well as we can for the time being. If you have any special tips or want to correct any out of date information here please go ahead and do so in the comments.
Remember those single women near you on Adult Friend Finder who are always ready to hook up both here and in your home town. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Cape Cod with our dating guide, enjoy your time here.